+100 Days Post Stem Cell Transplant

Wednesday was +100 days post stem cell transplant and scans day. We were at CHEO from 12:45 pm to 6:15pm. Ollie was incredible. I think it might have been his best day outpatient at CHEO ever. 

 He is now a totally calm and cool pro at getting pokes and didn't stress at all about getting his poke to have the IV inserted for the CT and MRI contrasts. 

He had been concerned about drinking the contrast for the CT, but thankfully I had a triple Pushpop sucker in his bag and he took licks in between and got it all down no problem. That's a pro-tip. Always have suckers, ring pops, etc. when you take your kid for tests in hospital. Thank goodness I had left some in our bag!

His ECG was quick and uneventful.

We got Llama Llama Blue Pajamas out to help with the scans. He's been in every scan Ollie has ever had. Most internally photographed Llama ever! 😜

CT went so great! We had two of our favourite imaging helpers in Sarah (the tech) and Jean (the nurse). Both know Ollie from so many previous scans and were happy to see Llama and talk about Ollie's Pizza. As always I was thankful for these amazing women who are so patient and kind. 

We bumped into Jamie at CHEO after the CT (we always seem to have radar and come together by happenstance often) and she had a few minutes to come back to MDU and hang out with us between meetings. She marveled at the difference in Ollie (last she really saw him was in June pre-transplant) and couldn't get over his returning energy level.

The MRI was backed up due to an unexpected trauma, so we waited an extra 35 minutes before we went in. Normally Ollie would have been so upset by this, but he took it into stride, only asking a few times when they were coming. When they came to get him, wouldn't you know it, we had the same technician that we had at our very first MRI at CHEO last year in November 1st. Complete deja vu.

They're taking extra COVID precautions to keep the MRI safe and clean, so he was completely PPE-ed and thought it was funny. 

I opted to sit in the MRI room with him as I had the first time and not since (Mario did his last MRI with him at Sick Kids and for all of the other MRIs he was sedated so they didn't allow parents in). I was stressed, but didn't realize how triggering this would be. From the moment I sat down in the hard red plastic chair and donned the red and black ear protectors, I felt anxious. Ollie appeared cool as a cucumber. 

The minute the machine started banging I could feel my heart begin to beat faster and escalate with each series of noises. I started to hold my breath and feel overwhelmed. Thankfully at that moment I remembered the words sent by my therapist in an email that morning. "Please try to exhale and stick to the present moment as much as possible." I dragged myself back from the panicked feeling I had in his first scan when we were so stressed and didn't know what he had, but knew it didn't look good. I took deep breaths and reminded myself that we got through it all and we're okay. That today was just a formality to confirm that he is as well as we can see he is.

It was a long hour and since I had to leave my metal watch and my phone in a locker, I had no idea how much time has passed. No clock in there, either!  Ollie was a champ. In about the last 12 minutes (3 scans of about 4 minutes each passed) Ollie asked loudly when he'd be done. Then he continued to be calm and still for the last scans, even when they came in to inject the dye in his IV. I remember vividly him freaking out that first time. 

In fact a few minutes later when he was done, I told the technician and her colleague about that first time and how kind she had been to Ollie when he freaked out, giving him a second chance to redo the scans and how that had shaped how we approached tests all year. Then Ollie told her about his Ollie Pizza and turns out she lives next door to the Hanna family who owns Gabriel Pizza! I love that about Ottawa. In a city of a million people you can still have so many people in common and so few degrees of separation. 

That was it for our day. Because he was amazing, he had been allowed to choose a new Lego set in the gift shop. He loves going there because truly it is the only 

store he's been allowed to shop in physically in a year. A kid who hated shopping with me before now wishes he could go into ANY store with me.

Now nothing left to do but wait for results. Our oncologist knows how much Ollie hates waiting and asked if okay as usual to call us with results, which was great. Last night Ollie was concerned about the results. I told him we'd already kicked cancer out twice this year with remissions and while I sincerely felt that he was well and desperately hoped we'd never have to battle cancer again, we'd fight it as many times as we had to in order to get him well and keep him with us. We fight as one. That reassured him and we agreed to just try to have a good day today.

And it was a good day. Ollie's Vision Itinerant teacher had arranged for him to be online with three other boys (all 8 and in grade 3) who were also part of the blind and low vision program. Ollie was so happy to meet kids like him. We had chatted with the Vision Itinerant Team Lead back in June to plan Ollie's return to school with this program, so Ollie was familiar with her already. She did a terrific job taking the boys through a story and tactile craft. She wove in some Braille and knowing Ollie couldn't yet read a lot in Braille, she had him type out the first letter of each word in Braille and praised him at always knowing the right dots for each letter considering he'd just learned Braille this summer. He was beyond thrilled. At the end he enthusiastically agreed that the group should do this again soon. He rarely gets this excited about anything school related. Connecting with kids like him was so good for his mental health.

This afternoon the kids had their second private session with Kids Kicking Cancer. Senseis Lyne and Cody were so responsive to his needs. They knew last time he really wanted to do real karate moves, so they started with stretches, telling the kids that you always stretch before a fight.

We cracked up at Chewbacca the cat joining the stretching...he seemed to be hanging on Sensei Cody's every word! 😄

When Sensei Cody realized Ollie was getting confused about a move and couldn't keep up, he suggested Ollie lead the count. This was so perfect as it made Ollie feel powerful instead of weak and slow. His energy and motion is coming back but some things are still hard for him. This made him set the pace and because of it, he even pushed himself to do more.

Ollie finally got to do stances and punches. He was so thrilled and proud of himself. He was elated to do the karate yells, too! 😄

For safe sparring, Sensei asked me to get a pillow. My brilliant silly boy suggested we bring the enormous bear he was given in hospital by the staff of the Calendar Club down instead. The bear has never been given a name, but Sensei Lyne insisted that an opponent needed a name, so he became Tom the Bear. The kids had fun taking turns sparring with Tom safely. 

The final breathing and relaxation exercise that Sensei Lyne took them through was calming and cleansing. I could see the tension leaving both kids and by extension, I felt calmer. 

The timing could not have been better since right after class I got the call from Dr. Brianna (Empringham). She explained that they had compared his scans from relapse in January and April and confirmed that the MRI looked better than his June remission scan. CLEAR. In fact they can see that the inflammation in his optic nerves had gone way down, although there was still a bit detected. She explained that they'd done the same with his CT scan as well. 

Only issue in his CT was the hip osteopaenia that they already knew from his bone density test last week. They'll do an x-ray of his pelvis on Monday and we're seeing the bone specialist and endocrinologist next week anyways to formulate a plan to improve this. 

Otherwise, scans were CLEAR.

COMPLETE REMISSION. 

ALLELUJAH!

Shortly thereafter, generous friend Tara (and Ollie's friend and classmate Will's mom) dropped by and left Suzy Q doughnuts on our porch, knowing we were waiting on results and they turned out to be Ollie's "victory doughnuts" as he dubbed them. Delicious victory!

 After dinner (of what else but Ollie Pizza from Gabriel Pizza?!), we finally carved our huge pumpkins chosen at the Parkdale Market this week (too risky for us to brave a pumpkin patch this year). We put on Halloween tunes and danced and sang while carving.

We're obviously not going out this year (couldn't really have even without COVID), but rituals and traditions are important and we cannot skip things just because things aren't normal (boy did we learn that over the past year).

This was the first real year that Ollie was big enough to do much of it himself. My heart sang that his blindness didn't deter his joy for it this year. He scooped goop vigorously and happily. 

Abby and Daddy worked on hers. Mario was excited to use the new pumpkin carving drill I bought super on sale after Halloween this year. LOL

Ollie explained in detail how he wanted his scary pumpkin to look. He helped me cut and took out the carved pieces. He felt each cut after and declared it perfectly spooky. 

Abby did the goop scooping and design, but left the carving to Daddy. Their final result was great.

Just as we were finishing up, M-F and Stephen stopped by and insisted we all come out for a distanced porch visit. We had texted them as well as family add a few close friends who have been there on this journey with us every step of the way, so they came with drinks to toast our good fortune and Ollie's health. 

We are feeling so very blessed and thankful. It's been a long and often agonizing road, but we're finally on the healing path of wellness. We're certainly not done and Ollie will continue to be monitored weekly at CHEO over the next few months, but now we know definitively that it is possible to keep him in remission for longer than a few weeks and that his system has truly been reset by the transplant. 

Nevertheless, cancer is a lifelong scourge in many ways with its many side effects (some that we may not see for years) and the possibility that it could always come back. We know families who have had the stem cell transplant and still end up relapsing. So Ollie continues on the one immunosuppressants and his Lorlatinib as a maintenance drug, likely until a year post transplant. 

We'll cross every bridge as we come to them. Please let our future path be free of major bridges. In the meantime we will just try to live our best life with gratitude for the incredible gift of keeping our son that God, science and an enormous amount of love and kindness from all of you have given us.